Philosophers in a sentence

I just felt like doing this, it’s not going to be perfect or complete at all:

  • Arendt: Evil can be banal.
  • de Beauvoir: Something about ambiguity?
  • Camus: Life isn’t fair but fuck it, make it your bitch instead while you can.
  • Descartes: The only certain thought I can have is that I’m thinking, and also some stuff about God.
  • Epicurus: Pleasure is dope but also complicated?
  • Foucault: Prisons are fucked, fucking is fucked, and also… uh… acid?
  • Gadamer: Jesus who knows, that guy is over my head.
  • Hobbes: Anarchy is shit, therefore totalitarianism.
  • I… don’t know any philosophers that start with I.
  • Jaspers: Technology is a fickle mistress?
  • Kant: I Kant get no satisfaction. Just kidding, uh… the categorical imperative and synthetic a priori blah blah stuff.
  • Liebniz: This is the best of all possible worlds, and also… other stuff probably.
  • Marx: Capitalism is fucked.
  • Nietszche: God is dead and we have killed him, so we need to find a new way to talk about moral issues or we’ll just be totally hosed.
  • Oppenheimer: is a name that maybe corresponds to a philosopher I have no idea
  • Pascal? Plutarch? I got nothin on either.
  • Quine: fucking, like… qua? Do I only think he coined that because they both start with Q?
  • Rousseau: Uhhh beauty and stuff and also society, honestly I don’t remember.
  • Sartres: Existentialist broo-haha. What more is there to know, and also it’s a great word.
  • Thoreau: one should experience nature, and oneself… thoroughly. I’ll go.
  • U…?
  • Voltaire: Y’all academics are all nuts, don’t @ me.
  • Wittgenstein: What are words, mannnnn?
  • X…
  • Y…
  • Zeno: All movement is basically a math miracle.

That was fun…? I’ll try again with new people sometime for funsies.

The Ethics of Prioritizing

I’ve been thinking about this a lot, lately. It’s something I think about a lot all the time, really. I’ve been watching a Great Courses series of lectures that’s also been making me think a lot about Judeo-Christian ethics, and how some of the historical roots of our current political climate are based on ethical systems that actually can be discussed and negotiated.

The series is incredible, by the way, it’s called “Why Evil Exists” with Charles Mathewes (this is just where I find most of my Great Courses, but you can also buy it on Audible). Anyway, I often feel guilty – we all do, I think – about the things I’m not doing. Calling mom, taking the time to read every day, getting your cardio in, taking out the trash, and so on.

But it is an interesting question, like, to get all stereotypically philosophical, and to also draw attention to it like a GODDAM NERD:

What is the “best” way to use time?

So like, if I were writing a philosophy paper we’d have to address two major questions to answer that question: (1) What is best, and (2) What exactly do we mean by “using” time?

For the “best” question, we’ll probably just have to reformulate the question, since we’re obviously not asking what the single best use of time is, as we can all agree that there are a great number of things that count as “good” uses of time – many of which, if done to the exclusion of all other activities, would be considered bad ones.

Everybody’s selfish, which is why I think we worry about this so much. If you let yourself be as selfish as we all are deep down, but in practice, you’ll end up being a parasite on the social order, which is bad. This is why Kant thinks that morality is somehow connected with what we can will everyone in the same situation to do, because the tension between the personal will and the will of the species are always going to be in conflict. This, for Kant, was a way of reconciling the two – saying that we might think that what we want is just what’s good for us as individuals, but really as parts of a larger social order, we’re obligated to do what’s good for everyone because it’s also good for us, given that we, in turn, benefit from that social order.

But that doesn’t quite hit the nail on the head, which is why Kant’s maxims weren’t accepted as truth by society at large. The fact is, Nietzsche was right. Good and Evil are concepts that only carry weight if you accept the premise that the individual human life must be lived in accordance with what’s good for everyone – but if that were true, we’d all just be slaves to social structures we had no say in.

Ultimately, all morality bottoms out in immediate, personal relationships – whether or not we’re even aware they exist. For Kant, morality depended on intentions as well as consequences. But I think they’re both important in different ways. Maybe the missing link between the two is something like responsibility – the responsibility not to be willfully ignorant, to educate yourself about the societal, environmental, and personal consequences of your actions before doing the thing that causes the negative consequences.

Or maybe we have a responsibility to cultivate the personal discipline not to act selfishly and use people as a mere means (also a Kantian idea for any non-philosophy nerds reading this)… But the importance of intentions also extends the other way, in that… maybe we shouldn’t be so quick to blame people for consequences they either didn’t or couldn’t have foreseen.

Like, think about the legal consequences of “negligence.” That’s a pretty philosophically wrought term, on its own, regardless of its context. To be neglectful is to cause harm that one may or may not intend, but merely… ignores? Kant might have said that such cases require careful scrutiny of the person’s intentions – but is it really possible to prove a person’s intentions with certainty, especially in legal cases where the evidence is incomplete?

This is why thinkers like Foucault are going to be more critical of the justice system than they are of criminals… because morality, at its center, will always be legislated between two individual people. Even if that happens many times over, in cases like fraud, or what have you.

So Jordan Peterson is right when he says in his lectures that it’s worth thinking about the fact that the justice system is based on the need to make justice a feature of the social order, rather than just about individual revenge. But maybe we actually need a little more revenge, I guess, is kind of what I’m saying, even though I had no intention of getting there when I started typing this…

But the fact is… involving other parties in a dispute that’s ultimately personal can be helpful, I mean, just look at all the people Judge Judy has gotten to pay back debts they were very obviously in the wrong about – but NONE of the disputes of that kind would even be a problem if justice on the macro level already was in place. Because if the world were just, children wouldn’t die because their parents had inadequate access to healthcare. People wouldn’t fail to thrive because they couldn’t afford the latest i-Phone. People wouldn’t have to steal just to feed themselves and their families, and people wouldn’t be sent to prison for trying a drug that’s not sanctioned by an enforcement system that CLEARLY has NOTHING to do with intentions OR consequences, but merely the purported “moral purity” of those who don’t do the particular drugs deemed unacceptable by… who, exactly?

I don’t mean to be that guy. I’m not really even that guy. I’m actually pretty square and innocent and naive. But I’m also not wrong.

And if you think about the connections I’m making… I mean, I just discovered them myself (sort of, at least in a text format), but I think they’re probably worth coming back to. Because good people do do bad things, and bad people do do good things. So maybe our system of retributive justice is just… outdated. Maybe it’s time to turn the page to a new world that isn’t quite as harsh on… anyone?

[I’m going to post this upon writing but bear in mind that it’s a first draft and I’m maybe not exactly sober at this point in time. Okay. But. Please comment if you read the whole thing because I want your thoughts.]

Oh, also… yeah… uses of time? I duno, I’ll probably take this down because my ADD is showing but uh… yeah.

Depression is a bitch.

Even writing this feels pointless. The problem is, I spent a long time fooling myself into believing that my channel was going somewhere. I spent a long time fooling myself into thinking I had something special to share with the internet, and all that stuff.

But the truth is, it’s been over two years and I’ve given it everything I had. I sacrificed a lot. I made myself uncomfortably vulnerable over and over, and I know that it was for its inherent value to me and whoever else got anything out of it. But right now, if I could go back and not do any of it again, I would.

The thing is, famous people get to make videos about their feelings and have it be brave and be praised by people for their ability simply to be real human beings and not just fake, packaged commodities for their fans. Which, fine. I guess it’s better than not being a real person at all, I don’t know. But they’re still making money off of that vulnerability.

But I was never getting anything out of this other than human contact with people who actually cared about what I had to say. Which means a lot, don’t get me wrong. But I gave up a lot to pursue that. I gave up my safe job and the relatively cushiony future I could have had, and now… now I’m starting to think that I overestimated how much what I was doing would actually matter to other people. Or at least, whether it would matter to anyone with any actual power. Or enough people that I could make some sort of living off of it.

And I do believe that the economy is fucked up and that people should be allowed to just live and that the world shouldn’t be so fucking unforgiving, but that doesn’t change anything because I still have to figure out what to do next and I still wish with every fiber of my being that I’d just taken the easy path and stayed at my desk job. And I still… I still feel so hopeless and lost that I can barely get out of bed or think straight about anything, let alone the future. My future.

Plus, I’m not convinced that it really matters because I don’t have a lot of hope for the future of our species, either.

But anyway I guess it’s just that… you can spend two years tweeting and blogging and rambling into the void only to realize that to anyone in the actual business of, like, making money by commodifying the attention of strangers on the internet… what you’ve been doing just looks pathetic and sad. To them you might as well be talking into a vacuum, if only 15 people read your blog or a handful of people comment, or whatever.

To the people I grew up not only watching but practically idolizing… to anyone with an actual audience, not only am I small potatoes or whatever, I’m less than nothing. I’m, like. I’m a joke, and the punchline is that I actually thought this stuff could go somewhere for me enough to throw the life I had away.

Anyway. That’s the truth. Even though no one is going to read this, and if they do, it’ll just bum them out. But uh… yeah, I don’t know. It’s bumming me out, too, and I just wanted to get the thoughts out so I can stop rehashing them over and over in the prison of my own skull.

On feeling sorry for yourself

Look, this is one of my biggest flaws and I feel like I have to just write a (very short) little post about it, just to have a record of it here for myself, and for you, if there are ever enough people reading this that it actually makes the slightest difference whatsoever.

But it’s been on my mind because I’ve been feeling sorry for myself a lot lately, and it makes me feel even worse to know that my life ultimately isn’t that hard compared to most people’s. But I think feeling sorry for yourself is just the human condition in some ways, no matter how lucky you are compared to other people because honestly, life sucks.

I don’t think there has ever been a child who grew into an adult and thought “WOW this is so much BETTER than I expected!” That just isn’t how life is. It’s weirder than you expect, it’s more complicated and confusing and surprising, maybe. And some parts are pretty fucking good. But we all wind up disappointed by life somewhere along the way, the only thing that really varies is how long we manage to postpone that disappointment.

Anyway. So we all cope with that in our own ways. Some of us blame our parents for creating us. Some of us try to save the world so we don’t have to focus on our own suffering anymore. Some of us blame our romantic partners or another group of people whether it be due to race or sex or whatever. Some of us just kill ourselves, some of us kill other people, some of us go down conspiracy theory rabbit holes or get addicted to drugs or alcohol or whatever else but none of us get out without some sort of coping mechanism that allows us an escape from reality because reality is just ROUGH and that’s all there is to it.

Some people have more grit than others, though, and I think maybe I just don’t have very much of it, because I feel sorry for myself all the time. And I don’t think I make excuses for myself, at least not as far as I can control it, although I know we all do. But I don’t hurt other people on purpose and I try really hard to be as good a person as I can be even when it hurts more than the alternatives.

But I do make excuses for myself in terms of just ineptitude. Not malice or anything like that, but just… I’ve always seen myself as… I don’t want to say stupid because it sounds like I’m being unnecessarily harsh, and I don’t want to say handicapped because it makes it sound like I’m trying to place myself in a group of people who obviously have more real and immediate struggles than I do. But I’ve always seen myself as maybe just not quite up to snuff. A little behind on the reading, so to speak. And I don’t think that makes me worthless or whatever but I do still think it’s true.

The point is, i think people use self pity as an excuse for not improving themselves. And I don’t want to do that but I’m afraid that I do. But I also think that sometimes it’s okay to just feel sorry for yourself because, hey, you know what? Life sucks. It’s fucking difficult and struggling is so stigmatized that we’re not even allowed to just take a second to feel sad that we live in such a merciless universe, and an equally merciless society that really doesn’t need to be as harsh as it is.

Anyway I don’t know what I’m saying but that’s all I had to say.

I’m great.

I’m cool. I’m great. I’m cool. I’m great. I’m cool. I’m great. I’m cool.

I’m smart and competent and happy and great. I’m a good person, I do my best, I’m a flawed but strong person who can be anything and believes in herself and is great.

Gotta start somewhere.

I’m okay.

I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay. I’m okay.

I’m okay.

I used to have to write that in my journals all the time, or just write it on a piece of paper and throw it away, or on a whiteboard, whatever. I don’t really remember how many times I did it. There were on and off periods, when I was in puberty, and after that it’s just resurfaced every once in a while.

I actually had/have a lot of affirmations that I probably don’t do enough.

You’re good enough. You’re good enough. You’re good enough. You’re good enough.

You’re safe. You’re safe. You’re safe.

You’re calm. You’re calm. You’re calm.

You’re loved. You’re loved. You’re loved.

You’re safe. You’re safe. You’re safe.

You’re perfect the way you are. You are the Kesha you want to see in the world. And also the Sia and Miss Eaves and Lizzo and Regina Spektor and Sarah Bareilles and Virginia Woolf and Simone de Beauvoir and whoever else, obviously it’s a long list…

And then when that doesn’t work, I just breathe. Sometimes all you can do is remember to breathe.

On “Debauchery…”

It just occurred to me that if you read this blog before watching my YouTube stuff, you could very well think I’m, like, devoutly religious. Maybe.

I guess I’ve clarified that organized religion isn’t always my favorite thing, but a lot of religious people also feel that way.

Anyway just for the folks who wind up here, first, and wonder why I’m so into Jesus… I’m not a sex negative Christian, or a “drugs are bad” Christian. I wouldn’t even identify as a “Christian” necessarily, but that’s not because I’m not a fan of the J-dog.

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“There is no object so foul that intense light will not make beautiful…”

…has always been one of my favorite quotes. 

I don’t know if I believe that it’s true, but I want it to be. 

I want to believe that everything, everyone, has a purpose. That there are no accidents. That even the worst of us plays a role in the story of life that in a certain light makes sense, that redemption is possible for anyone, on a long enough timeline. 

I think ultimately it’s probably because like Ralph Waldo Emerson, I want to believe in God – but not a man in the sky version of God, the version of God where the Holy Trinity is Truth, Goodness, and Beauty. 

It’s ultimately kind of a desire just to believe that even when life sucks, if you could see things the way they are, exactly how they are, that maybe the inescapable and infinite suffering of being alive isn’t a cruel joke but the mechanism by which the universe polishes consciousness into something more and more beautiful. 

I don’t think that life is fair. I don’t believe in karma, or divine justice. But I do think that even though we think we’re all separate pieces of the human puzzle, fighting to take up space, that we’re actually not puzzle pieces at all, but raindrops that only exist as drops while they’re falling, but end up back in the same body of water as all the other drops, in the end, and so everything we do to other people while we’re alive winds up being something we did to ourselves, too, and the ultimate joke is that God isn’t a Great Judge in the Sky who tallies up our good and bad deeds, but just a metaphor to understand the fact that we were never really separate from everything else, at all. 

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